Sex & relationship coaching

I’ve spent over five years as a sex and relationship writer, during which I’ve produced informational articles to help people with their sex lives, interviewed professionals in the field, and responded to readers’ sex questions online. But my training, as well as the services I offer to improve people’s sex lives, goes beyond my writing.

I hold degrees in Gender & Sexuality Studies and Cognitive Neuroscience from Brown University, and I’ve been trained and certified as a sex educator by Everyone Deserves Sex Ed. I’ve also received extensive training in sexological bodywork, which uses somatic techniques like breath, movement, and touch to teach people about their bodies, and undergone intensive study of tantric philosophy and extended orgasm.

I’ve also worked with over a dozen sex and relationship coaches myself, which has exposed me to a variety of methods that I use with my own clients.

What I can help with

When it comes to sex, my basic philosophy is that everyone’s body is designed to experience as much pleasure as they want, whenever they want, with whomever they want, and I support people in removing the blockages to this natural state of being and birthright of ours as humans. In particular, if you are a woman who struggles with orgasms, I’m your person. I specialize in helping women who have not yet had an orgasm, who can orgasm alone but not with partners, or who would like to orgasm more consistently or in a greater variety of ways.

When it comes to relationships, my goal is to help people feel and express what is in their hearts. I believe people spend too much time creating rules and putting up walls when they’re dating, but ultimately, love is about staying true to what you feel in the moment. I help people live and love free from conventions and fears. I also happen to have an eye for creating standout online dating profiles.

Some other areas I’ve helped people of all genders and orientations with include:

  • Assessing and making decisions around their romantic relationships
  • Gaining skills and confidence in pleasing their partners
  • Reducing anxiety around sex and dating
  • Getting out of ruts in their masturbation routines and exploring more avenues to pleasure
  • Incorporating toys into their masturbation practices and sex lives
  • Composing messages on dating apps that lead to more (and higher-quality) connections

Session structure and pricing

Sessions are done over the phone if you’re in the U.S. Outside the U.S., we’ll set up a voice call via Skype, WhatsApp, or your platform of choice.

The first call is $150 for an hour, during which I’ll offer my advice on the areas you’d like help with and, if you’re interested, discuss how I’d approach working together longer-term.

After that point, I offer several packages: $1,000 for three hour-long sessions, or $3,000 for three months of once-a-week sessions. If we work together in the long term, I’ll give you exercises to do in between our calls and be available to you over email for any questions you might have.

The other option is to email me your sex questions. This may be a good choice for those who are shy or have a limited budget. I charge $25 per question or $50 for three questions.

Email me at if you are interested in exploring any of these options.