Growing up, I was always a star student, but relationships and sex were the two things I couldn’t seem to figure out by the time everyone else had. On my 18th birthday, I had never been on a date. On my 25th, I had never had an orgasm with a partner.
So, what did I do? I harnessed what I was already good at and became a student of sex and love. I earned degrees in Gender and Sexuality Studies and Cognitive Neuroscience from Brown University. I spent five years as a sex/relationship writer, interviewing experts in the field and pouring over scientific studies. I worked with over a dozen sex and relationship coaches myself. I took online courses about female pleasure. I underwent a mentorship with a tantra teacher and a week-long hands-on extended orgasm course. And I went to many sex parties, clothing-optional resorts, and masturbation workshops — for science, of course.
Once I felt like I had somewhat of a handle on this stuff — forming healthy relationships, creating a frequently right-swiped Tinder profile, dating multiple partners, orgasming with all of them (even at sex parties!), and managing to avoid major drama — I turned my attention toward helping others navigate these areas. I got certified as a sex educator by Everyone Deserves Sex Ed, studied somatic sex education and sexological bodywork, and perhaps most uniquely, spent two years mentoring with psychics. Yes, you read that right, psychics! And as I gave psychic readings, I realized my greatest strength was combining my intuition with the practical information all my other training had given me.
The result of all these experiences is an approach I call intuitive sex and love coaching. I bring my knowledge of science, psychology, and the human body as well as my ability to connect with someone’s energy and intuit what they’re going through and how it fits into their life path. I’ve been known to pull angel cards during sessions… and to cite statistics. Curious if I can help you? Read on!
What I can help with
When it comes to sex, my philosophy is that everyone’s body is designed to experience as much pleasure as they want, whenever they want, with whomever they want, and I support people in removing the blockages to this natural state of being and birthright of ours as humans. In particular, if you are a woman who struggles with orgasms, I’m your person. I specialize in helping women who have not yet had an orgasm, who can orgasm alone but not with partners, or who would like to orgasm more consistently or in a greater variety of ways.
When it comes to relationships, my goal is to help people feel and express what is in their hearts. I believe people spend too much time creating rules and putting up walls when, ultimately, love is about staying true to what you feel in the moment. I help people live and love free from conventions and fears. I also happen to have an eye for creating standout online dating profiles.
Some other areas I’ve helped people of all genders and orientations with include:
- Figuring out who, in their hearts, they really want to be with
- Exploring different relationship structures, such as polyamory
- Gaining skills and confidence in pleasing their partners
- Reducing anxiety around sex and dating
- Reconciling sexual incompatibilities in relationships
- Getting out of ruts in their masturbation routines and exploring more avenues to pleasure
- Incorporating toys into their masturbation practices and sex lives
- Composing messages on dating apps that lead to more (and higher-quality) connections
- Connecting more deeply with their bodies through breath, movement, self-pleasure, and meditation techniques
Session structure and pricing
Initial Consultation ($150): Over a one-hour meeting, I guide you to make progress regarding your wishes for sex and relationships. We also determine whether you are a candidate for a longer coaching package.
A Month of Sex/Relationship Coaching ($1000): Three sessions in one month to help you meet a target or goal for your sex and love life.
Three Months of Sex/Relationship Coaching ($3000): Four sessions per month (Twelve sessions total) for sustained transformation.
Coaching packages include personalized exercises and email support.
Coaching is conducted virtually via phone (inside the US), or other convenient platforms (outside the US).
Contact me to set up a call!